Fucking 101: The Ins-and-Outs of Being a Great Top

Fucking 101: The Ins-and-Outs of Being a Great Top

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In an article, we discussed expert oral service and shared examples of cock-sucking skills from some of the best in the blowjob business. We now share some techniques from talented tops that are sure to improve your “A”ss game. And that’s just the “tip” of the knowledge you’ll acquire as next time we “end” our series by exploring the “ups-and-downs of bottoming.”

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Austin Wolf tops Derek Bolt at Hot House

The French word for top is “actif” or active; and indeed to do the job right there is a lot of sweaty labor and multitasking involved. In the span of a mere 34 seconds, watch as legendary top Austin Wolf incorporates (1) playing with Derek Bolt’s nipples, (2) apply gentle choking, (3) finger Derek’s mouth, (4) vary his rhythm and thrust, (5) worship Derek’s muscular body with his hands and (6) throw in a classic over-the-shoulder kiss straight out of lions mating on Wild Kingdom. But before you can ever hope to achieve this level of awesomeness that has taken Austin decades of fucking to master, you must first learn the basics of how to be a great top.

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Phoenix Fellington and Alexander Volkov swap oral at Lucas Entertainment

Is your partner the type that likes to have foreplay or the type that would rather you “spit on it and stick it in already”? If your guy is into foreplay, your ability as a lover will be judged on your overall performance, and your prep work here will account for at least 30% to 40% of your total score. Keep that in mind and take your time kissing, swapping oral and eating ass before you rush into the main event. And even though you may be topping, don’t be shocked if your partner bends you over and starts eating your ass during foreplay. Not all bottoms are “passif” as the French say, so relax and enjoy the experience.

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Axel Kane tops Connor Halstead at Men.com

Most bottoms know that it’s their job to get their partner’s dick hard, and a good blowjob will usually do the trick. If you’re lucky enough to get good head, try to be responsive and give verbal feedback beyond just moaning. No matter how good the head, don’t be one of those guys who zone out when getting their dicks sucked and for heaven’s sake, don’t ever nut during the pre-game. Some partners will expect oral reciprocation, but if you are one of those guys that have an aversion to sucking cock, you can try not to lose points by giving a hand-job or with a reach-around to play with his hole while getting serviced. You might also try doling out some heavy verbal appreciation and the occasional slap on the ass to help you get out of dick-sucking duty.

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Blake Mitchell gives Angel Rivera the “thumbs-up” at Helix

One of the major tasks for a top is to properly prime the bottom for the initial insertion. Some bottoms take longer to relax than others, and patience here will be remembered and rewarded. If there are toys around, it means your partner wants you to make use of them before sticking him with the real thing. If not, using the time-tested technique of “one finger…two fingers…three” will help you to slowly stretch that hole. Try treating your partner to a nice blowjob while your fingers are working their magic. It will help him to relax and will earn you extra points for being attentive. Watch one of my favorite tops, Abe from Sean Cody, as he demonstrates a combination of techniques to loosen up his scene partner Brent.

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Hot top Abe primes Brent from Sean Cody

Connor Maguire sucks Brenner Bolton at Men.com

Connor Maguire sucks Brenner Bolton at Men.com

Many tops focus too much on working the ass and tend to forget that their partners have cocks that need attention too. A common technique is a well-timed break in between the fucking action to give some oral love to your partner’s cock.

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Topher DiMaggio tops Adam Bryant at Men.com

Being the top means you are the one in control and that ass is yours for the taking. But why stop there? Grabbing and jerking your partner’s cock while you’re fucking him on his back or his side not only looks hot, it signals that you are exerting further control and domination over his body. It may sound simple enough, but this kind of multitasking takes some practice to get the timing right. Think of it as similar to being able to rub your belly with one hand and patting the top of your head with the other; it’s awkward at first but doable. Topher Dimaggio shows off his impeccable rhythm as he fucks and jacks first-time bottom Adam Bryant in a scene from Men.com.

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Ashton McKay tops Tobias at Bromo

Not all tops are blessed with enormous cocks as traditionally depicted in porn. Watch as “boyfriend-sized” Ashton Mckay use a position made famous by Diego Sans to give deep dick to Tobias in a scene from Bromo. “Scissors” is another position which allows modestly-sized tops to get it in balls-deep. Many of the best tops use a combination of positions and variations in rhythm and length of stroke regardless of the size of their endowments. The goal of the top should be to find the angle of approach that the bottom responds to the most.

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Diego Sans tops Ian Greene at Men.com

A good top has a repertoire of several combinations and moves at the ready and is able to skillfully transition into new positions with minimal interruption and without breaking the mood. Diego Sans is famous for mixing up the action with his sexual acrobatics. Watch as Diego seamlessly go from eating ass to executing a “Level 10” difficulty fucking position on the counter with Ian Greene.

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JJ Knight tops William Seed at Men.com

The best tops use eye contact to heighten the intensity of the pain/pleasure sensation for the bottom. Another powerful weapon in the arsenal of a good top is the ability to disarm even the toughest men with a deep passionate kiss. Watch as JJ Knight and William Seed burn up the screen with a simple kiss in a scene from Men.com.

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Brock milks Randy at Sean Cody

When your partner is fully relaxed, it’s time to take that ass to Pound-Town as you start heading for the finish line. Just remember to try let your partner finish first. This is where the notes you took earlier of which positions he prefers and how his cock responds will come in “handy”. The ultimate demonstration of skill and dominance for any top is the ability to make his partner cum at-will.

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Collin Simpson takes a load from Travis Youth at GayHoopla

Sometimes the sex is so good that a top will lose control in the heat of passion and finish before his partner. Most tops tend to lose their boners after cumming which means the fucking is officially over. A good top will follow through and employ any means necessary to ensure his partner also finishes. Watch Collin Simpson go above and beyond to help Travis Youth finish in his mouth at GayHoopla.

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Blake Mitchell minds his manners with Greco Rai at Helix.

Lastly, unless your bottom specifically asks you to treat him like a cum-dump, being kind and considerate will make you a better, more memorable top. Always show your appreciation by giving him a small kiss, or at the very least, hand him a towel to clean off when your work is done.

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